by Sean Russell
If you haven’t already, check out our article on how porn is holding you back. We are very passionate about the fact that porn literally ruins most men’s lives in this generation.
There are too many reasons to list to stop watching porn, but here are the top ten.
**Note: We’re not religious. We don’t judge. We’ve been avid Porn fans for most of our lives. But we just know the benefit of living a life without it and want you to experience it too.
1) “Real men” don’t watch porn
Yes I know he is not a “real man,” but do you think the character James Bond was watching porn in between killing bad guys and slaying gorgeous women. Do you think George Clooney and Brad Pitt were spending hours streaming porn in their trailers on the set on Ocean’s 13. There’s not a chance.
Guys who live lives that you envy, get girls you want, and carry themselves like you should, don’t waste their time jerking off to internet porn. They are ambitious. They approach women and are smooth when they do so.
You can be like this, or you can be a man who huddles up around his laptop and pathetically pleasures himself. The choice is yours.
2) Porn makes you lazy
Men no longer have to make any attempt at fulfilling there sexuality. It is the worst thing that ever happened to the race.
Men used to go out of their way to win the hearts of women they wanted. They used to be romantic and bold. Now they just stay home and spend countless hours surfing internet porn.
3) Porn strips you of your desire for improvement
There is no reason to go to they gym. There is no reason to do your hair and make yourself look good. Porn will never reject you no matter how you look, and regardless of how much money you make.
When there is no primal need to impress the opposite sex in order to fill mans instinctive need for lust, men become gross, disgusting creatures, who lurk their house in their underwear.
4) Porn causes insecurity
Porn sets unrealistic standards for men. To be in porn men must have abnormally large “talent.” Men who watch porn consistently grow to see that as the norm and themselves as inadequate. It’s a slippery slope because this insecurity keeps men from having sex with women, in turn driving them deeper into porn use.
5) Many men find porn more stimulating then sex
Porn is now so fantastically HD, with every sexual fantasy imaginable at the click of a mouse. The pleasure of watching porn is starting to overtake the pleasure of actual sex, if it hasn’t already done so.
Men searching hundreds of fetishes and videos in the matter of an hour now find sex with a woman of the standard they can get (because of the porn) boring, and unpleasurable. This is a very dangerous line, as seen in the examples below.
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I could link you 100 + examples easy, of just men who write about it online. If this sounds like you you really need to sort yourself out. Get on the forums, there are many people who have been through the same thing who can help you along the way.
6) Porn causes ED
Because of reason 4 and 5, porn causes erectile function in an enormous amount of men. Porn becomes the only thing that can stimulate them because of the intense visual experience it offers the brain. This experience is unnatural, and real sex become bland and un-stimulating.
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The experience of porn is so unnatural, that it actually causes the brain to release unnatural amounts of Dopamine, the reward chemical. The brain becomes so accustom to this unnatural level of Dopamine that without porn you can not achieve an erection and you straight feel like crap.
It is a proven fact that porn affects the brain the exact same way as other addictive drugs. Educate yourself on the matter.
7) You will find women more attractive
I think the greatest gift of living a porn free is how you start to perceive women around you. After months free of porn, your attraction to women will go through the roof. It is truly remarkable.
– Just the sight of a woman’s skin will turn you on
Being free of porn you start to really appreciate the beauty of women. Just the sight of a woman’s skin, or her smell will be enough to throw your attraction into overdrive. Your sexual instincts will be back where they are supposed to be, and you will crave women like never before.
– You will start to notice women you once found unattractive
Women that once were not up to your porn standards really start to pop out at you. You will start to see the beauty in women that you once overlooked because they did not have the bodies of porn stars. I find myself more and more surprised at some of the women I find attractive and for what reasons. Its is really a beautiful thing.
8) You will be better with women
This should be reason enough for anyone to stop watching internet porn. I promise you that after months of no porn, and even better, no masturbation, you will be better with women (out of necessity!). And not just a little better, but a lot better.
– You will crave women, instead of craving your favorite videos
Have you ever gotten that incredible sexual urge that comes out of nowhere. To a regular porn viewer to first thing they do is head to the internet. To men who don’t watch porn, the first thing they do is head to their cell phone to call a real girl. Or they go out and meet one.
– You will find it easier to talk to women
Many men who give up porn find that they start to interact much smoother with women. A lot of their anxiety towards the opposite sex fades and they start to feel more confident and smooth.
9) Sex will be more satisfying
Instead of having ED and not finding sex as satisfying as porn, you will be the opposite. After months without porn in your life your pleasure for sex will skyrocket.
– You will have better, harder erections with women
Without porn numbing your sexual stimulation, just the touch of a woman will be enough to get you up and going. Actual sex will feel so different than it ever did. So much more powerful and pleasurable.
– Your intimacy levels during sex will be something that you never experienced before
If you are like most men who started porn at an extremely young age, you have probably never even experienced intense intimacy. You have sexually numbed yourself from porn for years, and your first sexual experience free from porn will be like a sexual awakening.
You will also be much better at sex itself. You will be more in touch with a woman’s body, and your own. You won’t have any performance anxiety issues and your sexual freedom and spirituality will increase.
Sex can be the greatest experience there is, you just need to lose the porn.
10) You will simply be a better version of yourself
Its a fact that if you can give up porn you will be a better version of yourself.
– You will think clearer and be less stressed
– You will find women more attractive
– You will be better with women
– Your sex life will improve
– You will have more energy
Try it. If it doesn’t work, porn will be waiting for you right where you left it.
There’s so many ways you will improve by just dropping one thing out of your life its incredible. It seems so obvious and crazy that not everybody does it. But porn is so addicting and drawing which is why most men will never quit. But you can.
You can have an advantage over millions of men in the world. You can have a better life.
Sean Russell is a true entrepreneur. After years of passionately improving his own life, he created MenProvement to help millions of men do the same. Visit his website HERE. This article is culled from MenProvement.